Is Your Email Address "Blacklisted?"

(c) Jim Edwards - All Rights reservedcaught in an ISP's
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A lady emailed me yesterday very upset overIf you ever find your email messages don't get
the fact thather friend's Internet Service Providerthrough, orif you'd like to head off problems
(ISP) wasn'tdelivering important email messages.before they occur, thefollowing tips should help.
This lack of delivery caused a real problem forEncourage all your email contacts to "whitelist"
the two ofthem with ruined plans, missedyour emailaddress in their email program.
appointments, and just plaininconvenience.Just like you can say which email addresses you
If you don't use email, this might not sounds like adon't wantto get messages from, you can
"bigdeal."specify a list of emailaddresses you always want
But this problem of non-delivery has dramaticallyaccept.
affectedthe way businesses use email and is nowIn Yahoo or Hotmail you can set up your filters to
about to reachepidemic proportions foracceptemail messages from a certain source
consumers using email.regardless of thesubject line or content of the
To put things into perspective, imagine if everymessage.
time youdialed a friend's phone number you hadIt takes a little patience to set up, but it pays
no idea whether itwould ring or not.bigdividends by not losing important messages.
Now imagine how frustrated you would feel overWith Outlook and Outlook Express, you can set
time if youkept dialing the same number and itup messagerules to always accept messages
never rang for you, butothers could get throughfrom certain senders.
and your friend's phone numbernever changed.If you send messages to people who use AOL,
That's exactly how you'll feel when your personaltry thistechnique. Get them to add you to their
emailsstart getting blocked for seemingly noaddress book
reason."safelist" or "approved senders."
The problem of legitimate email messages notThis helps AOL identify that the message
gettingthrough stems from the uncontrolled andrecipient "knows"you and has a higher likelihood of
unstoppableonslaught of spam that currently gripsactually wanting toreceive your message.
the Internet withseemingly no end in sight.Email AOL tech support for help on this if you
The fact that viruses can now "spoof" emailencounter aproblem.
addresses andmake it look like someone sent aIf filtering and "white" listing don't work, then
virus to thousands ofpeople doesn't help mattersyourfriend needs to contact their ISP to sort out
either.the problem.
In an effort to cut down on spam, ISP'sTheir ISP can certainly figure out why messages
implement a numberof counter-measures,don't getthrough, but it may take some
including: text filters, spamdatabases, and IPconcerted encouragement toget the ISP's
blocking.customer service to take the time toinvestigate
If your email message doesn't get delivered,the cause.
most of thetime it means you inadvertently got